“She’s not able to wait for any length of time without completely flipping out. Standing in lines, waiting on a doctor’s appointment, really anything longer than 20 minutes. Going to the grocery store together is a nightmare.”
“My wife has so little self-confidence that she constantly questions herself to the point of utter indecision. On everything big or small she has no opinion because she simply can’t decide. I suspect it’s fear of being wrong but I don’t really want to tell her it’s ok to be wrong. Something tells me that wouldn’t help.”
“She likes to collect bird beaks.”
“How mean she could be to people. She burned more bridges with friends in the 3 years we were together than I’ve done in my whole life. She’s generally pretty sweet, but when she gets pissed off she will say some of the meanest things I’ve heard.
It took me a long time to recognize the common denominator because we rarely had any problems.”
“Her smoking. We met when she started working as a server at a restaurant that I was already employed as a bartender. She was chatting with a female co-bartender who supposedly told her that I would not date a smoker so she hid it from me at first! Now happily married 10 years later!”
“My GF cheated on her last boyfriend. Not for love, but because she was mad at him. She was still young then and really regrets it but it would probably have been a dealbreaker if I knew before I fell head over heels for her.
We have a great, stable relationship but it’s still nagging in the back of my head from time to time and makes me insecure.”
“He kept a sex calendar/book, came across it two years into the relationship. He had symbols for what he did with the woman and notes like if it happens on the first date or not.
For example, ‘X = kissing and so on and so on’. The first few months of dating before becoming “exclusive” he told me I was the only woman he was with, well according to the calendar I was far from, sometimes multiple women in a day.”
“I didn’t realize any of these things until she moved in with me and it became clear that she was barely a functioning adult.
She couldn’t use a washing machine, iron, or dishwasher.
She dealt with her problems by going to bed early and hoping they’d solved themselves by morning (spoiler, they hadn’t).
The only thing she could cook was fries and chicken nuggets.
She didn’t consider tidying up after herself to be normal and she would proudly text me when she did some laundry or the washing up, then got annoyed when I wasn’t grateful she’d managed to sort out her own s@#t.
But mainly, she liked to f@#k other dudes.”
“That he’s bipolar. My brother is bipolar as well and growing up with him has been hell, watching him ruin his life with gambling, etc. when “high” and being suicidal when depressed.
I’m glad my boyfriend didn’t tell me until later in the relationship, because now I know there are functioning bipolar people out there. Best 3 years of my life so far.”
“She just liked me a lot and pretended to be more similar to me than she was. Claimed to be a gamer, but she never once played with me in two years, claimed to smoke, would never join me, claimed to enjoy most of the things I enjoy doing but she did not. We ended up sitting in my bed for hours every single time we hung out.”
“That she had worked as an escort and as a sugar baby before we met. I never in my life thought I would date a former sex worker, but man do I love her, and I’m glad I’ve had to re-evaluate my biases.
She told me 6 months in and she had never told anyone else close to her. She said she’d rather tell me “now” than wait till she falls even further in love with me and risk losing everything down the line.”
“Her low libido, I’m not a horn dog by any stretch, but completely avoiding and ignoring anything sexual for months on end. I would have like to have known that we are sexually incompatible.
I love her with all my heart, we’ve been together for 25 years, but this subject is a source of friction that makes me feel depressed, unloved, and unwanted.”
“Debt. Crippling debt and a complete lack of financial aptitude…it has been a long but prosperous 3 years my friends.”
“It’s the other way around, but my GF is a big fantasy nerd and in order to impress her I pretty much memorized the plot to ‘A Song of Ice and Fire’ and read some reviews to actually have an opinion about it before our first date.
However, I gave up the game a couple of years later when I forgot about the Red Wedding and had a brain fart by reacting like I hadn’t read the books before. Not only that, we allegedly talked about it before but I had no recollection of ever talking about the event (I mostly just mhm’d and yepped my way through our conversations).
So there I was, caught red-handed and I said the only thing I could think to say. “Look, I lied, but it was one of the best lies I
ever told because it got us talking and here we are. If I turned back time I’d lie again”.”
“She thought pornography was cheating. Never once came up after j#rking it for years, and then suddenly she sees the browser history and I’m divorced.”
“She is incredibly superstitious to the point where she notices a slight coincidence and then believes that it has to be that way.
For example, her mom wished her good luck before a test that went poorly so now her mom can’t say that to her anymore.”
“That her list of deal breakers was literally 15-20 items long. And yes, she has a physical list that she typed out which she would add to periodically. When I first saw it, I asked which were her needs, and which were her “wants” in a relationship. She said those were all her needs, and if a man was lacking even one of those things, it was over.
Needless to say, I ended up not checking several of those boxes, and now that’s all done.”
“That she cheated on her ex-husband with a colleague that she still works with. This is after 6 months of me openly talking about my own ex-wife having cheated on me.
I asked her why she didn’t tell me sooner and she said, “Because I wanted to make sure you fell in love with me first.” I don’t know why I’m still with her.”
“My wife does not like Princess Bride.”
Stupid fucken all whores are the same. Mine cheated on me with over 10 guys that i know of in the 5-6 years ive been with her. Most ive been with is 5-7 women all my life. We have 2 kids together and while i stayed in a different town ti watch our son in the hospital for 4 weeks, she partied and cheated who kmows how many times. She would accuse me of cheating even though i would always stay home with the kids and she was the one going out and drinking. She got pregnant in july and wouldnt stop bringing up that she wants an abortion even though the month before she was telling me she really wants another baby AND i get fucken pissed off at the word abortion and walk out sometimes. She did this for a week till one day while she was taking a piss OUT IT COMES. She is just holding the fetus in kleenex and has a relieved smile on her face. Think i almost made her give birth to someone elses kid. They are all the same. They only care about themselves and nobody else. She didnt even care about the kids she gave birth yo just booze and her own pleasure. Im so thankful im one of the few last loyal and sober men in the world hahahaha. PS i never once revenge cheated or fooled around.
Cannot remember the last time we had sex. Which is really not that different than when we used to have it regularly – because with her it was always such a chore. I should have known when she got totally freaked when we first dated and I wanted it EVERY DAY!!!. WHAT?!?!?!? Like Im a freaking pervert or something.
I used to visit prostitutes a lot – they were the best. They really made me feel great about my sexuality. Now I don’t care. American amateur women are so UNBELIEVABLY clueless. Sexual revolution? What a laugh. America is one of the most sexually repressed societies on the planet, which is why porn is so huge in the US.