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Understanding these red flags can help both men and women build stronger and more honest relationships.
“”I need someone who can handle me” is such a huge red flag bc it usually means they’re immature and refuse to take accountability for their behavior.”
“Bee sting lips.”
“Being mean to strangers”
“Being anything except a decent person…this goes for anyone, not just women.”
“Women that dont like animals.”
“Using makeup as if you were trained as a bricklayer with a trowel.”
“Pretending you are dumb.”
“Acting like a baby and baby voice. Absolutely d**k shriveling. Your incompetence isn’t cute or s**y, it makes me think you’d be a terrible partner and unreliable.”
“Comically long nails.”
“All those little “Lets see how you react if you’re confident” tests. I’m in my 30s.. I’m tired. I just walk away.”
“”If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”Ok, but have I seen your best yet? What am I working for, is it just… this? Does it get worse?”
“Infantilizing themselves. I don’t want to feel like I’m dating a child.”
“Refusing to take accountability.”
“Taking selfies all the time.”
“Rude to servers.”
“Constant complaining and being unappreciative.”
“Big false eyelashes.”
“Trashing someone else. Your roommate might suck. But if that’s all you talk about, I’m not interested.”
“Comparing us to an ex in any way. Instant b***r k****r.”
“Sharing things said in private to their friends. Just because we were comfortable enough to tell you something personal to us doesn’t mean you have permission to spread it far and wide.”
“So much Botox you can’t form any facial expressions, from your chin to your forehead.”
“Talking in that weird f*****g baby voice.”
“Clapping syllables when angry.”
“Bold of you to assume the men of Reddit have interacted with women!”
“Expecting me to be able to tell you what you want to eat. Even worse when it’s every day, or multiple times a day.”
“Being **LOUD**Indoor voices, ffs.”
“Not being independent.”
“Taking pictures of every single thing whilst on vacation and always being on their phone like they are an influencer (Taking away from the actual experience of things and not enjoying the moment).”
“Fake nails, fake lips, too much makeup etc.”
“The constant unending critiques of everything about you, how you dress, and what you could be doing better. If you don’t like me for me just say that please.”
“The f****d out fake tan that only does the face and stops at the neck.”
“Going on your phone the entire time when we are meant to be watching a movie or TV show together. I don’t want to rewind it or try to chat to you about it after to find out you didn’t pay any attentionBonus points if you’re watching TikTok’s out loud.”
“S******g on people behind their back is so gross and I used to see women do it all the time in college and then pretend to be their friend face to face. Snake behavior, immediatly makes me lose all trust in you because no matter how nice you are, il have no idea if ur s******g on me when im gone.”
“Being racist. If you can’t even keep your racism hidden on a date, you must be a huge racist. Also you really won’t like my family.”
“Saying things are fine or ok when they clearly are not and then acting passive aggressive.”
“Playing mind games.Many women think that playing mind games will prove to them whether the man is really interested or not. In reality that’s the fastest way to k**l the interest of a good man.”
“Bad hygiene.”
“Being a messy s**t starter/staring up drama and lies to entertain themselves. It’s gross. I know that’s not all women, but I’ve met a few wolves in sheep’s clothing.”
“Thinking rules don’t apply to them.”
“I think most men are not a fan of being called daddy. I could be wrong, and I’m sure there are people who enjoy it, but it just makes me sad more than anything.”
“Lip filler.”
“Constantly on social media. Wakes up, check social media. That need for validation.”
“Playing “hard to get” .. maybe that’s a personal one. But I don’t care for the “chase” if you’re into me show it, I’d rather not play a guessing game chasing something that’s not realistic.”
“When she says ‘I love a man who communicates’ but then gets weird when he opens up about his Pokémon card collection, emotional trauma, and the fact that he air-drums in the shower. Like hey, you said *communicate* – not curate a TED Talk.”
“Long fake nails. Not attractive and look almost crippling. Your own nails, well-kept and clean, are way more attractive.”
“Having a “Mean Girls” attitude. Ma’am. Ew”
“”funny stories” that are just the chronicles of being a bully.”
As a man, I would say… many things written here works for men too. Except maybe lip filler, it’s placed eslewhere. Could you find real women red flags, next time, and not just talk about what you project on others?